Potential - Alfa Mist.mp3

[00:00.000] 作曲 : Jordan Rakei/Mansur Brown/Jamie Houghton/Alfa Sekitoleko/Johnny Woodham/Jamie Leeming/James Rudi Creswick
[00:34.140]I think it's...its who you value.
[00:36.972]What do you value?
[00:38.378]And... not every sibling can be friends.
[00:42.166]You have to differentiate.
[00:43.025]Sometimes that is enough like... you know... I love you, I've got you,
[00:47.956]if anything goes down and, and that's the essence of the family.
[00:52.734]Not everyone who has family has a relationship,
[00:55.339]so I think ... if you merge the two then that's where people get confused,
[00:59.417]you know i think..... you have to make conscious decisions,
[01:02.070]and i think also, it's also about stages of life as well.
[01:06.176]When people are building,
[01:07.594]sometimes they don't have time...like... so like when you said.
[01:11.373]You only meet people when...you know there's something for you to do or you're already doing it,
[01:15.404]so it's easier to meet them because you're building.
[01:20.456]Let's build our lives and stay as close as possible,
[01:25.440]but we don't have the time to be spending every day together and these kind of things.
[01:30.275]So my thing is,
[01:33.090]when we get to that stage,
[01:34.979]where we can,
[01:36.039]then that's why I'm always an advocate for new adventures.
[01:39.352]I'm always like, ah, what more can we do?
[01:42.255]I.... I totally agree with all the things you're saying.
[01:48.946]Umm, Family and friends.
[01:52.213]It's interesting and ... this mix into mental health.
[01:57.726]For your family not to be friends,
[02:00.743]then it's a psychological thing
[02:02.632]because you grew up in the same household and this is where a conscious decision's come together.
[02:08.301]You've grown up in the same household,
[02:10.479]depending... so.. depending on characteristically or even on essentials we don't get taught.
[02:15.645]Or because friends don't necessarily have to have the same interests. Right?
[02:20.616]Especially when we start talking about goals and goal oriented.
[02:24.182]So it means you can make a conscious decision to do something together in order to solidify a relationship.
[02:28.590]So you grow up around somebody's house,
[02:30.756]together you work again to solidify that circle. Right?
[02:34.946]You're obviously different, you obviously have different interests. Right?
[02:39.049]It doesn't mean you shouldn't spend time together because you're different, right?
[02:49.014]That's not valuing what's at home or not being conscious of where you are.
[02:54.317]And then you start spinning out to start moving to making your friends your family.
[02:58.760]Again this is because of the instability you're taught.
[03:04.696]Because of.... broken pieces...